llinca Vandici her first day son love it surprise a din camera

llinca Vandici her first-day son love it surprise a din camera

Ilinca Candice is one of those mothers who, after the period of self-isolation, realized that it was time to cut the umbilical cord and take her son to kindergarten. Even though she is just 3 years old, Zian is already going to kindergarten, leaving Vandici to have time for her too.

 We are the kind of parents who could hardly wait for Zian to go to kindergarten. I am also lucky, because Zian's godmother, his godmother, has a kindergarten, and then we were privileged from this point of view because we took him there and left him in the family. Somehow he didn't feel his whole universe being upset. Although she had, especially now in the pandemic, that she got very used to us, some reactions in the morning that she didn't want to go, but she adjusts.
Although she is quite young, she turned 3 in June, and Ilinca is the kind of mother who was always around her son, once she got into the hands of educators, the presenter from "Bravo, you have style", relaxed.

I'm the kind of mother who explains a lot, talks a lot to him, tells him anything, responds to any curiosity, and talks to him like a big man. He also adapts easily. I'm not panicking, I'm not watching him on surveillance cameras, but that's because he's in kindergarten with his godmother and everyone treats him the way he's treated at home. If he was elsewhere, it would probably have occurred to me to monitor him, but in this case, no. I am calm while she is in kindergarten, because I know she is happy ", Ilinca also said for Libertatea, motivating that she chose to give him so early in kindergarten in order to socialize, on the one hand, and on the other hand, so that she can take care of other things.

In those hours when he is in kindergarten, and I am calm that he is in good hands, that everyone takes care of him, that he is happy there, I also have time to catch my breath, to do all kinds of things I wouldn't normally do if I stayed with him all day.

All of Ilinca's relaxation came when she started therapy with a psychotherapist. The meetings helped her realize that there is no such thing as the "best mother in the world" and that she should not raise her son according to rules imposed by specialists or new parenting trends.


There are not the same WhatsApp or Facebook groups with other moms. These things drive me crazy. That's what I'm talking about with my psychotherapist. I'm having trouble understanding if I'm doing well with Zian. Because I want the best for him, a good start in life, I realize that the most important thing is what he sees around in the first years of life and then I always have questions and I want to know if I'm doing well, if- I educate him well. I started talking to various and diverse and I was more upset than elucidated. Then the psychotherapist told me that I must be the best mother for Zian, not the best mother in the world.


That was the moment when I said “stop” and I didn’t stop listening to all the parenting specialists, not to listen to everything everyone has to say, and to realize that I am not an idiot who doesn’t know how to and raise the child. I have a great idea to raise my child and I have raised him very well so far ", Ilinca Vandici also told Libertatea.